"I'm a lawyer, and it's a job that takes up a lot of time," she says.
"I didn't know how I was going to meet someone, especially when with what little free time I had I wanted to spend it with my friends." Heeding advice from friends living in New York City, Allison turned to the Internet.
Online dating sites love to boast about the millions of members they have.
But as it turns out, they’re heaving shovelfuls of statistical manure at you.
Meeting someone online is probably the safest method of dating.
I say this because you have the option to check out everything about them before that first date, which is something you can’t do if you meet someone in a bar or club.
In 2000, Brenda Allison graduated from law school and moved to Chicago.
After the jump, some things you might not have known… Most of the member profiles you’ll find are inactive."I met this guy for drinks, and everything was going fine.I have a tendency to mess with my hair when I get nervous, so I start running my hands through it.A few years ago, OKCupid calculated that 96.25% of e Harmony’s profiles are inactive, using numbers provided by e Harmony themselves.Match was only marginally better, coming in at 93.1% inactive.We like Ok Cupid's whole package — a huge user base, slick interface, the fact that it’s free — but its real strength lies in its robust matching algorithm.