Well, then, it looks like you've been caught in a bad romance.
In a Psychology Today article posted 3-19-14, "Deal Breakers in Dating," Frederic Neuman, M. makes the point that what is a deal-breaker for one person may not be that big a deal for someone else. Maybe he snores, and you can't sleep with all that noise.
You can see what attracts you to one another and whether you're compatible physically, spiritually and intellectually.
Compare the Astrology of you and your mate today with a Romantic Compatibility Report!
This was something that might have been popular when zodiac signs first came out.
But, I think people have slowly started to realize there probably is no sense in it.