Sometimes, behaviour that’s aimed at reducing hurt and conflict can actually makes things worse for the other person, as it creates false hope and confusion.So if you’re a woman dating a man and are wondering whether he’s as into you as you are into him, here are some simple red flags you can use to spot a guy who’s simply not interested. He tells you he’ll call and then doesn’t A man who’s interested will be a man of his word. If there is a good reason why he can’t do it within the timeframe you expected, then he’ll contact you when he can and explain what had happened.If a man consistently sits back and lets you chase him to arrange dates, then he’s probably not particularly bothered about seeing you. He doesn’t reply to your texts or emails for a long time, sometimes until you send another text or email.
The alternative: "If I'm not interested after the date, I'll head straight home and begin my process of fading out of this girl's life (following up is not part of that process)." Of course, not hearing back right away isn't a definite rejection, but the excitement of a speedy follow-up message speaks for itself.
The second case occurs when you have at least been on a date or two with him and are wondering, “Is he interested in me for anything more than just some casual relationship?
” and “Does he see long-term potential in me, or is he just going to waste my time and use me?
In my experience, when a woman asks this particular question, she is actually wanting to find out one of two different things: 1.
Whether a man she is attracted to (but has not yet gone out with) likes her. Whether a particular man she has gone out with a few times sees her as long-term relationship/marriage material (or not). You will have a really good indication that he is interested in you if he does things like: For some more detailed discussion on these points, please check out my article: How to Tell if a Guy Likes You.