But then, you start realizing, wait a minute, no ones responding back to you.
My Single takes a somewhat unique approach to online dating.
But when your fave sidekick is in love and you’re not, that bond can feel like it’s starting to weaken. Now, suddenly it’s like your BFF is practically shacked up with this dude. Everyone will believe you and no one will want to be around you.
Yeah, you never noticed how odd it was to be the odd woman out until you were “it! When you’re the odd one out you can feel like the fifth wheel on a car, madly unnecessary. He’s the one who gets all of her funny phone calls, texts and witty FB messages. Let her know that you understand that things are different, but you still wanna hang like old times.
I made myself scarce when you started vibing with that cute guy during our girls-night-out, played third wheel when you began dating, helped him pick out your ideal engagement ring, bought you drinks at your bachelorette party, and danced at your wedding.
” Here’s how to deal when everyone’s facebook status is set to “Lovey Dovey;” except yours: DO treat being single like a gift. This is the perfect time to finally learn guitar or rock out to that new boxing game. All those interests and skills and activities are going to make you more attractive to the right person when they do come along! And worst of all, if your friends invite you to join them you wonder if you’re just a charity case. And when she does call you, it’s to talk about her relationship. She’ll appreciate the honesty as long as you don’t come off as too demanding.
You won’t be single forever but sometimes it does feel like it, right? Stop buying into some bogus idea that your life is incomplete if you’re not in a relationship.
Have you been single for a while, or are you newly single?
Appreciate the fact that your friends are happy and jump into your own fabulously single life with both feet.