Breakups are always hard because you have to mourn someone you loved and lost.
But, time heals everything, and eventually, you'll meet someone else.
At first, it doesn't look too hopeful, but years later, you encounter the book and bill, proving there is nothing keeping you apart.
You'll start messaging each other, somehow never realizing how physically close you actually are.
Be as complete as possible please with your answer.
Questioner: You know Alana, we receive many questions from people that were in marriages, or other forms of committed relationships, that then have met somebody else and felt like the person outside their marriage,outside their committed relationship was actually their soul mate.
Admittedly, I had fantasized about meeting my “prince charming” as a girl but the idea of being “rescued” was drilled out of me in therapy and replaced with the realization that only you can save yourself. We didn’t have a romantic relationship or an affair. Neither of us is comfortable cheating and have no intention of going there. He feels that if we were meant to be together then we would have met under different circumstances. I’d rather have him as a friend than not at all but the idea of not having a romantic relationship with him is absolutely devastating. First off there is no thing as one soul mate for a person.
There was no period of “falling in love.” It was more like remembering a love that was always and would always be there. People come into our life at specific moments as reflections of what is going on inside of us at that specific time.
However, you keep chatting online and eventually figure out each others' identities and that you're more alike than you ever imagined.First you bump into each other while Christmas shopping.Then you exchange numbers (one written in a book, the other on a dollar bill), deciding to leave everything up to fate.Then, there are some who crush you, who take months to get over.But this is different; this is the feeling you get when you know something has to end right now but isn't over for good.You'll do a favor for a friend and help drive your future soulmate to New York City.