In another article I give some advice on how to generally think of things to say.
For most people, if they struggle to make chit-chat, it's when they're first talking to a person they've recently met.
However, if anyone refers to me as his girlfriend in front of him, the colour drains from his face.
” explaining how proper dating has been replaced with casual hook ups and ill-defined relationships. And when I say I’ve learnt this the hard way, I mean it.
Online dating, and our ability to be in constant contact with everyone we know via text, email or social media make us unwilling to commit to one person, and more likely to want to hedge our bets. In an article I wrote earlier this year about modern dating, I used the example of a man I’d been sleeping with for over a year, who got cross when I referred to him as my boyfriend.
The consensus among every relationship expert is that the assumption should never be that you're dating exclusively, but instead, that you're dating non-exclusively until you have a conversation about the subject.
Read on to find out more details on how to find out if you're dating exclusively and how to broach the subject with a new guy.